Friday, August 5, 2022

Kind On Purpose

 

I've been thinking a lot about kindness lately.  Maybe because the world seems a little crazy right now with so much uncertainty, conflict and division everywhere I look - and it's a BIG world.  Way bigger than I can fix.

If I change my perspective just a little from that great, big world to MY world, I find some hope.  My world is really very limited - it's the people and things within my reach at any given moment.... wherever I am.... whatever I'm doing.

There's another change in perspective that gives me even more hope.  It's not my job to fix every person and situation that crosses my path.  Instead, I try to focus on leaving things better than I found them.  As special as I'd like to think I am, God didn't make me the complete solution to every problem.  Shocking.  

There is one more important idea that I need to carry with me everywhere I go: most people are just like me - a little weighed down by what it takes to make it from one day to the next.... skinned knees and bruises in a broken world.  When I let this thought borough into my heart, it's a game changer.

So what?

When I start each day, I ask God to find ways to use me.  I ask Him to give me the wisdom to see those opportunities.  I ask Him for the strength and courage to dive in and be used.  It can be a scary prayer.  But it's less scary when I remember:

My world is pretty small

I only have to leave things better than I found them

Each person needs a spoonful of kindness

When I start the day with these things in my pocket, it's remarkable how many opportunities start popping up.  What's even more remarkable is how less daunting it is to take a step toward situations I would have just passed by.  

Pay for the person behind you at Starbucks - and ask the cashier to tell them "I hope this lifts your day a little".

Let the cashier know that you appreciate their work... smile and laugh a little.

Make dinner (or takeout) for a family member or neighbor  - especially when you know they could use a break.

Call (or send a card) a friend or loved one to let them know they aren't forgotten.

Meet a friend for conversation.

Honestly, it takes so very little to shine wherever you are.  It's not the grand, look at me gestures - it's the little things.  Let God nudge you.  What you'll discover is that if you start with small steps, soon you'll be running.

I'm letting Him nudge me - every day.  I'm thinking about being kind on purpose.... and hoping that when God needs me, I'll be there.